I fear you’ll leave me

Dear [first name],

The reason that I have such a hard time saying that I love you is not because I don't love you. It's just that one of my greatest fears has always been commitment.

I've always ran away in the past when it came to this point. But I have very deep feelings for you and am asking for you help in facing this fear of mine.  This fear is from being hurt in past relationships. I always feel like fleeing before I get too closed and attached to somebody.

I love you more than I have ever loved before. I enjoy nothing more than spending time with you and want to see our relationship blossom.

Thank you for your understanding.

Love,